A big congratulations to you and your wonderful significant other! You’re both about to embark on one of the greatest adventures.
I personally can agree wedding planning is really exciting but there are times when it can be incredibly stressful as well! I promise that I will do everything I can to help make this everything you have ever dreamed of!
Thanks to https://www.weddingsonline.ie/planning/your-complete-wedding-planning-checklist
Here’s everything you need to do on your wedding planning journey…
12 months to go
- Sit down with your partner and discuss the type of wedding you both want
- Think about the time of year you want to get married and particular months
- Decide how many guests you want to have and make a rough list
- Think about the style of venue you’d like
- Set yourself a budget
- Start researching venue/ceremony locations
- Book reception venue
- Book ceremony venue
- Look in to wedding insurance
- Start researching wedding suppliers and services such as wedding photographers, entertainment, florists, makeup artists etc.
- Book Wedding Planner (if required)
- Book Photographer
- Book Videographer
- Book Band
- Do some research on the style of wedding dress you’d like and potential stores
- Book appointments with bridal shops to try on wedding dresses
- Send Save the Dates if you’re looking to give guests lots of notice
- Think about your bridal party – pop the question once you know who you’d like to ask
- Think about DIY projects
8-10 months to go
- Research and book ceremony music
- Order your wedding dress
- Think about your colour scheme and any decor your want to hire
- Research and reserve accommodation for guests
- Start looking in to honeymoon options
6-8 months to go
- Order wedding stationery
- Order your wedding cake
- Start thinking about flowers
- Buy or look in to hire options for groom’s suit
- Start looking for bridesmaid dresses
- Book pre-marriage course (if getting married in a Catholic church)
- Book honeymoon
4-6 months to go
- Research and book trials with hair and makeup artists
- Book hair and makeup artist
- Send notification of intention to marry to the registrar (this is a legal requirement – you need to give at least three months notice)
- Order bridesmaids’ dresses
- Order baptism and communion certificates if getting married in Catholic Church
- Get hen and stag party planning under way (ahem bridesmaid/best man)
- Buy wedding shoes and accessories
- Book your wedding transport
- Book your DJ
- Book florist and discuss your options
- Attend pre-marriage course if you’re getting married in the Catholic Church
- Check the date on your passport – renew if necessary
- Start DIY projects
3 months to go
- If you haven’t already sent notification of intention to marry, 3 months is the last chance to do it!
- Buy wedding rings
- Buy lingerie
- Book alterations and fitting appointments
- Organise wedding favours
- Shop for and arrange reception and venue décor
- Compile your wedding gift list (if you’re having one)
- Get Best Man and Groomsmen’s suits fitted
- Have any vaccinations needed for the honeymoon
- Start collecting addresses of friends and family for the invites and buy stamps
- Decide on your song choices – first dance, reception entrance and processional/recessional options
- Arrange food tasting and decide on menu
2 months to go
- Get working on mass booklets (approve readings/song choices with Priest if getting married in a Catholic Church)
- Send wedding invitations
- Check out/test tanning options
- Purchase gifts for the bridal party, parents, partner
- Attend dress fittings
- Think about your table plan display
4 Weeks to go
- Have your final wedding dress fitting
- Confirm details with suppliers
- Confirm menu and any dietary requirements with the venue
- Collect bridesmaid dresses
- Send song suggestions/playlist to band/DJ
- Chase any guests who have not yet RSVPed
- Send photo list to photographer
- Finalise guest list
- Finalise mass/ceremony booklet and who is doing readings etc.
- Start breaking in your wedding shoes
2 Weeks to go
- Collect wedding dress
- Organise table plan and seating arrangements
- Write speeches/vows
- Order foreign currency for honeymoon if needed
- Go over checklist to ensure you haven’t forgotten anything
- Wear in wedding shoes
- Get your something old/new/borrowed/blue (if you’re doing this tradition)
1 Week to go
- Visit venue or chat to coordinator about placements (band, cake, first dance etc.) and timings
- Give reception venue/caterer final guest numbers
- Print or do up place cards and do up table plan
- Confirm services/times with wedding suppliers and pass on bridesmaid/best man’s contact number
- Get hair coloured
- Have beauty treatments – waxing, tinting, massage etc.
- Attend wedding rehearsal with celebrant
- Assign bridesmaid/groomsman as contact person on the day
- Pack your honeymoon bag (don’t forget your passport)
- Create a timetable for your day with slots for bridal party’s hair, makeup etc.
- Pack overnight back
- Have lingerie, dressing gown and all accessories together
- Organise envelopes with payments for suppliers – allocate groomsmen to look after on the day
2-3 days to go
- Have manicure
- Make any last minute changes to table/seating plans
- Collect groom’s/groomsmen’s suits
- Confirm time the wedding car will pick you up
- Confirm time of cake delivery
- Arrange for delivery of flowers to church/venue/home
- Arrange for flowers/gifts to be given to parents/grandmothers
- Put together wedding emergency kit
1 day to go
- Drop off wedding decor, place cards, table names, favours, props, etc. to venue for set up
- Give list of suppliers/contact numbers to bridesmaid/groomsman/other contact
- Ensure bridal party know what time they’ve to be at your house/venue
- Have the rings/wedding suppliers payment envelopes ready for the Best Man for the wedding morning
- Ensure you have your wedding accessories ready for the morning/overnight bag packed
- Double check what time the car will collect you
- Relax
- Soak up the excitement and get a good night’s sleep!
Day of Wedding
- It’s here! Enjoy every single minute!
Photo Credits: 1. Bridal Notepad Set from Etsy | 2. Photo via BHLDN | 3. Photo by DKPHOTO | 4. Photo by Becca Lea via Style Me Pretty | 5. Photo by DKPHOTO |